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learn owl, an eye, close one eye. You say I'm confused, in fact, I'm not stupid! Only things more changes, the business is difficult, ruining fast, people say that water is clear there are no fish, no friends of people to the police. In fact, the self-preservation, of great minds are often Dayu, smart person and more able to live
(1) stupid people smart I know.
smart people should learn to learn to survive. Studies of small but not smart, clever little wise man will I, am not smart. Foolish, foolish people on the surface, although not able to count the pros and cons clever moment I, play it safe, always invincible in many areas of human nature is such a phenomenon.
Banqiao Qing struggled in his life is about to leave when, leaving a Taste carefully, it is actually suitable for human nature in some areas of the jungle.
confused and sober is the corresponding. Clear means of reason and rationality, who wants to walk in the jungle must keep a cool head, and avoid making such mistakes, in order to better achieve their goals, to compete with others to overcome others, in order to achieve their interests. Then say,
in the jungle of human nature, we must always remain sober. Who are our friends? Who are our competitors? Can rely on who can not depend on who? Should be how to overcome them? Should be how to get on the stage? For these problems, we can not awake. This is an aspect of life, but also our basic conditions for survival. Without these understanding, we will live among the blind in a loss.
get along with the superior field, silly than clever better. Xiao is a good example. Then conquer the world of you and Liu Bang were meritorious ministers, all non-mediocrity, and the last are to be alienation and victimization Liu and Lu, Xiao He can only spend their remaining years, why? Xiao He does have a rare confused. He has never held a number of events indifference, so Liu, Reuben relaxed his attention to preservation of his own clever.
superior, after all, his power, wisdom more than once you show him, he will have a feeling of insecurity, he will not let you go a long way, and can say that this is the inevitable human nature, once you are a bit special smart people, the more you should pay attention to protecting themselves, and not everywhere you smart publicity and wisdom,toddler uggs, to try to pretend to be confused a little, pretend to be better than your boss and let him get a sense of superiority, let him revel in his success among small and you are confused that the event note that on the line. This confused, not showing your ignorance. As long as they can protect themselves, or should this.
smart readers, I wish you could smart I know. And not smart while, I, do not confused. Since the woolly-headed, it should not be much, moderation is the best.
(2) Do not think yourself smarter than others.
thinks smart people are often not hospice care, but who really great wisdom on the surface seems a bit Undefeated life,
Psychological research shows that: people in general feelings of superiority, and a person's behavior, emotions often associated with this has a great sense of superiority; once he realized his ridiculous childish or stupid, the kind of superiority will give a refreshing self-reward. On the contrary, the failure of self-superiority was due, and this failure is caused by the other party, which will produce an almost overbearing and rude, and through emotional and violent behavior or language to that imposed on the other side, even for a non-frustrated never give up the hate each other.
So, this is a terrible dark areas, however, it is so widespread there. As a human being evil, it is like a ghost, tightly wrapped around the human. We hate to see this hateful guy,ugg australia, but carries it to do nothing. Prior to this, we do not even know it exists, although in daily communication, we often feel there is something in the control people's emotions, we are not careful, it will stir up anger and hate each other, even worse, is that sometimes we do not know what is wrong, so let the other side suddenly to myself up cold.
reason why we so ignorant, all because we ourselves are guilty of the same problems: too smart, too believe in themselves. Because this fault, because we often inadvertently caught in each other's shortcomings or errors to be pointed out that no additional masking of, and that greatly hurt the other party carefully constructed their own sense of superiority. Or, we often inadvertently catch a show where his intelligent, they can not wait till someone noticed their wisdom, and this sense of superiority is no doubt that he was the greatest discontent. In fact, our This
John Hua Na Meike said: how conservative is the word, Hua Na Meike too gentle to human society, and which thus appear to be so sentimental side. And when we see other people's intelligence, to see the success of others, we are on the rise not just jealousy, or even to produce a result and no reason for him to hate and disdain, when we see the screen the kind of image, we issued a despicable bottom of my heart hum, but this time, we secretly agree with how ridiculously self.

One wise man said, some people call him on the street, he did not even head back, he did not want to know who the call him. Because life is so short and precious, too many things to do, why is this unpleasant waste of time to do things?
Life is an art, and even spent his whole life may not be able to use one of cause and effect remain unaffected University asked how many people eager for actually find the original committee, trying to comprehend the true meaning of life, create their own brilliant life. However, the complexity of life makes it impossible hole in the limited time the full meaning out of life, but people's understanding and perception of life is always limited to the events on the inspiration, such as: do not be too seriously is one of the reasons , this is the one to live smart, lies the reason was Huode Lei.
certainly not cynical man, the game of life, but not too seriously, considered dead management. Too seriously, it will not bear the sight of anything, even a friend is no place to isolate themselves from society. Mirror is flat, but in the high-power magnifying glass, into the rugged mountains on; the ########## eye see things clean, to get under the microscope, bacteria are everywhere. Just think, if we Then a magnifying glass to see other people's problems, I am afraid that guy Zuiburongzhu, hopeless.
all times, the people who can become a major event has an excellent quality, is the guest, can not be content, and tolerance of people can not endure, be good at seeking common ground while reserving differences, unite the majority of people. Their very heart, open-minded and sloppy, the big picture and not shortsighted, never care about, dwell on the principle of non-trivial, so that they can achieve great things, establish cause, to become extraordinary great man.
However, to truly does not seriously, to guest, not a simple matter, need to have good manners, way of thinking need to have understanding, need to put ourselves in each other's point of view to consider and deal with problems, and more Some sympathetic and understanding, will be more tolerant, more harmonious, more friendship. For example, some people once a government official, will not tolerate under the slightest problems, frequently crying in the corner, Nose bridge set eyes, under the fear of a tiger, a long time, will grudges Cheng Chou. Do not you think the world can sweep a person, and why it due to problems with people a little bit of a grudge it? Should A change of position may be, Aixun people may understand the boss to impatience.
encountered in public places despite the heart of the matter, really do not get angry. Strangers is certainly not offensive to you for a reason,ugg london, I do not know what kind of bothering him the day feeling bad behavior out of control, you happened to catch up, if not insulting your personality, we should be forgiving pregnant, did not mind, or dealt with gently, enlighten them with reason. In short, you can not be with this person had any enemies stared rivalry. If more true since, the flies into a rage, knife on knife, gun for gun to dry up, spawn, what kind of consequences, it was not worthwhile. Contests with strangers meet by chance, it is not wise to do. If the other party is not culture, one contests equivalent to lower yourself to the other levels, loss of face. In addition, the other's offense shifted from pain to some extent is the vent and,Hummer H1 military version of the exhibition hall, although we have no obligation to share his pain, but it did help him objectively, invisible pieces of good work done. As a thought, also capacity of him.
honest and upright official dead letter, not to contests at home, or you foolish. How can there be between the principles of his wife and children, stand on major issues? Are one family, have to use the society as a variety of standardized roles, dedication of the national civil service, decent smart businessmen, but also the workers and staff, but the one back home, take off his suit, that is, you play off of the role of the If you are at home even went as hard in the community, the same compliance from the dance, each saying a word, do one thing should also be considered right or wrong, whether it properly, scruples impact, consequences, weigh again and again, that is not only ridiculous, too tired. The mind must be clear, you're at home, the husband is the wife. Therefore, dealing with domestic chores to take Specifically, for the husband to be generous in terms of an eye in money and goods, closed one eye, the more so-so the more popular, his wife points to her parents partial eye, is common, you simply do not care about it personally, It shows us a man generous demeanor. Wife of her husband's laziness and various intolerable problems, should also take the attitude of tolerance, should not nag them too much, and complain that he is here, too his, nor her husband came back late occasionally or President to call, give face to see , not the nose, face, nose, does not face trial poured out. Look more closely, the stronger the rebellious. Simply Da Saba, let him cool to see how much skill, but also from the outside world will give him an emotional lesson, as long as you are a strong self-confidence, a character, attractive woman, her husband will not bother you then cut off heart. Afraid your husband is too Home is a safe haven, it should be warm and harmonious, please do not give it turned into a battlefield filled with gunpowder, smoke signals everywhere, and deserted them, the key to see how you go to grasp.
above have mentioned Road, there was a wise man said, some people call him on the street, he did not even head back, he did not want to know who the call him. Because life is so short and precious, too many things to do, why is this not a pleasant thing to waste time? This man can do enough practice, you know what to do and should do, know what things should be carefully What things can be dismissed. To really do this is very easy to go through a long-term temper. If we can be clear what things are not serious, you can muddle through, we can free up time and energy to go all out to do serious things to do, our success will greatly increase the opportunity and hope; At the same time , as we become forgiving, people will be happy with our contacts, our friends will be more and more. With the success of the cause of social success, so why not one of the biggest blessing almost?
(4) Who is a hero?
Liu Bei, Cao Cao was in trouble seek refuge with Cao Cao Liu Bei was received in good faith. Liu Bei are living in the promise to belt she signed Chao, Cao Cao for the murder of anti-, in the back garden vegetables, hand watering, as confused Cao Cao, to relax their attention. One day, Liu Bei, Cao Cao into the House about alcohol, about the dragon-like person, who will discuss the world of the hero. Yuan Shu, Liu Bei point times, Yuan Shao, Liu Biao, Sun Ce, Liu Zhang, Zhang Xiu, Zhang Lu, Han Sui, were one by one to belittle Cao Cao. Cao Cao that the standard

Heroes - He is. Liu Bei, the plan for the shelter to Tao Xu are unlucky, was a hero after Cao Cao point out, spoon and chopsticks are actually scared to lose ground fall, just when the rain will come, thunder. Liu calmly Fushi spoon and chopsticks, and said, Liu Bei Hero of verbal exchanges in the cooking liquor is very smart.
Liu hidden but in front of people is not an exaggeration, obviously Hyun, bragging, arrogant, dumb, do not count themselves into the He's planting vegetables, a few of his heroes, at least on the surface, the convergence of their actions. A man in the world, arrogance is not too assertive.
Confucius was young, I was taught. At that time I had told him: , and looks it seems stupid. The profound meaning is warned that too much to show off their abilities, without the desire or energy to the abuse of restraint, there is no benefit.
old shop in China, is on display in the store valuable goods, the owner always put them away. Only experienced people who have money and know what's what, before we tell them something good in there. If the casual goods placed in the clear upper surface, not worrying about anything too thieves truth. Not only of goods, people can too. As the saying goes, Therefore, no matter how high order, should be good at hiding, that is seemingly not, but in fact full of the realm.
Smarty focus on showing off, is committed to the cause of a large smart.