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a year or two later, my husband received a phone:
did not expect the festival he will call me Two years ago, particularly in the ear of his words, Ash!
ten minutes ago, the phone rings, a look at numbers does not know, then after, his voice is still so soft, like all the past three years have not happened, I was his wife, he I most admired her husband, asked me if I had a good or bad? So the moment of trance, but a few seconds later, I wake up, I told him I was ready to buy a new house with her boyfriend of furniture, I also told him gently, finally agreed to play a little break, I had to take this holiday to buy a roughly seven days, new houses always have more to mind the above, right? You, as usual, refused to eat that loss. Autumn Festival. Farewell! make me happy, please complete it in my face! it is the best Mid-Autumn Festival gift!
me at home, turned down all appointments, just want to sleep a dizzy. All the past back to mind.
I heart a mess and not very coherent narrative, we slowly Listen to me.
Second, recall
1, with her husband and happy
plain that he and I are college students, he high I'm twice, very good, sound very appealing, is the school radio station, a student leader, At that time almost every day at noon in the school loudspeakers in listening to his voice trailed Duke's dream. Later, I was drawing well, often what the teacher called running a blackboard newspaper, student radio station when their offices are linked, and slowly to know, and slowly to fall in love. At that time, he always me laugh too simple, too silly, to others in society will certainly be deceived, did not expect that remark to come true, he became the first person lied to me.
After graduation, his family in the rural areas of Henan, but he did not want to go home, decided to stay in Beijing development, I was not graduated, but it is support him, he found a newspaper job, just started to do press every day run out news, people are very hard, and quickly lost a large circle, but also a lot of black, even so, each made a wage, he always smiled MiMi area around the school I go the best hotels, In fact, his money was not much, but every time and I do not know the streets to save money, always said I should dress up, and my people are born lazy, do not love to wear, to love in the quarters move along to read to sleep, he often laughed at me is to sleep through dorm mattress.
So I graduated two years later, soon found an administrative assistant position, take a little money, but life is very regular, it will not work overtime, then, we shuttle every day in Beijing size of the alley, and finally in the middle of two work units that rent a house, and started our cohabitation.
since both parents are very conservative, so we hurried to get married all drives can be a lot of his family brother and his brother had married parents spent a lot of money, so his family had no money to buy a house in Beijing So my parents took out a twenty to million, to help us pay the down payment, because we had not married, so the owner is my name, then receive a license to get married.
ambition of my people, wanted peace of mind to be a good wife. Because the extremely lazy, people are careless and sloppy, so everything does not love a quarrel with someone, had always been a big mistake small eyes to forget, but excellent relations with the company from top to bottom, usually made even if the point of fault, always someone to help me cover it up, but also because usually love to read, so to speak witty, allusion very many employees love to pull me to dinner, I am very familiar with the senior, so after the resignation of the Chief Explorer, manager can let me take her on the office.
marriage was in fact still very happy, I work every day to buy food to cook, so he came back, the two Kandie a meal, sometimes to the next eating out, and sometimes a walk to see the night life too comfortable was. This life continued for a year, proved how much I slow, he married when he started to keep me, even hidden from me for a year, I know.
2, her husband's deceit was found in his unit in
never told people that he got married! Even said that he is still single! I actually really stupid, because usually does not always love each made money, I told him soon, since he will follow some of the month to get out of the situation of life, and together with his money, every time I want to with the money, can directly ask him to, so more than a year of marriage, I could not even book at home do not know which bank, phone or Telecom Netcom did not know.
until that day.
units that want to do more an insurance, you must want me to, and his identity card, the day before because I forgot to ask him to, so the next day in charge urging me, I look for him to direct a taxi, it was my first time to the unit to find him, I met a few male colleagues turned to red office said, yo, H, where did you lie to the big beauty ah! Have to seek them out! You're not afraid Dandan jealous ah! I was very surprised to find,
cheap gucci shoes, but can not figure out what strange, then came a beautiful woman,
gucci sale, very shrewd white-collar workers, I do not know her, but she is very affectionate to me, H just finished one will be out, you first sit down! What, I said to his identity, he said on the desk, and let me waiting for him outside for a while, and he showed me inside, so much to turn around quickly into busy, and I only felt a little wrong, but can not think of what not to homeopathy with him, standing outside the office, even to see that he stood just a few white-collar workers, said that beauty, the woman smiled, took out his wallet from the body, from her purse took out my husband's ID card and handed my husband!
I was the first reaction is to retreat to the hall (later proved to be a reflection of how instinctively the right), did not let her husband found out that I saw that scene. I took after her husband's identity card to a taxi back to the unit directly, and what did not ask. Sitting in his office, only grew more and more realize that her husband is the unit apparently does not know her husband have been married, or else I would not say something like that, that Dandan is who? How will her husband's ID card in another woman's wallet?
early on the day I came out from the company, on the way home, suddenly thought of her husband's identity card to another role, I am very well, then her husband got a single. If there is a single phone call almost every day, except during the day, the call turned out to be a day when the morning! Two in the morning and often hit from the four or five am! That is my most mature day time sleeping! Even though I was the stupid people, I know, this is definitely not normal.
me to sleep very good, love is basically on the pillow to the point of obsession come to their senses, usually I say I'm sleepy, and within ten seconds you can hear me snore, any fights outside world faint dark Nor can I embrace lire from the Duke of Zhou, to good psychological quality is excellent, to say it is not bad eye of a person.
husband calls a day to wait until midnight to this person, who is it? I was the first day of a show is to see that white-collar ladies. I remember people saying that Dandan? Well, this is the white-collar Dandan is not it?
proved I guess right, I am such a Taidalielie person,
gucci watches, actually the first time, have been so accurate intuition.
her husband's newspaper web site I know. I went home, her husband not home, I open the computer, direct access to open web pages of their newspapers. In the I do not know other sisters who are experiencing how to do such a thing, my home I was the only one child, and parents and in the field, I do not have to consult the people, not to mention I have an impression that time is, I think this conclusion is also too arbitrary.
according to the television as I do not have to question my husband. I bear down. I clearly asked and white ask, is he admitted that he was having an affair? Can he tell me he did not tell colleagues he married?
reporters after her husband did, nothing more than taking on a lot of effort and grow, and his debates, I mean, but he, not to mention that according to the book, do not arouse his suspicions had.
I am a stupid person, usually to love reading, especially history, ancient books cloudy ninja things can only become a major event,
gucci sunglasses, I think I'll endure it, as long as able to figure it out.
long after, my husband and I divorced, the words woke me up. He said,
her husband came home that day, bought flowers, chocolates, I laugh as if nothing happened MiMi, in fact, when he took the flowers and chocolate, my heart cold by half. People who are not guilty, why bring these things to mangabeys red eye to confession? My husband did not see a little flaw. Do not blame him to the effect that I used to always careless, forgetting the small things blink of an eye, he was convinced that I will not be suspicious of
nine more, I fixed the time for bed. I told my husband I sleep for, and so he continued to watch TV. Little sleep and no, I closed my eyes waiting for the arrival of the moment proved the truth.
been a long time,
gucci shoes, her husband to touch the bed, feeling he was looking at me, he touched my head, for me cover the bed, turned to lie down. In the dark, I'm up against her husband, even snoring issue.
has been a long time, I feel there is something in shock. One would like to be understood, it is the mobile phone vibration movement. My husband took the phone away
out of bed and went to the bathroom. Our bedroom is the master bedroom, a bathroom suite can open the door her husband went out to the off guard. Flush the toilet I heard the voice.
room was quiet, it is a breathtaking quiet, my heart beating faster my breath, however. I'm pretty out of bed without a whisper. Just stood bedroom door, the door is unlatched her husband, and I gently pushed open the half-fan, did not come closer.
really was on the phone.
saw her husband pretending to be drunk voice, nothing else to do to find my ID card to do a card, not to Beijing Beijing phone post-paid accounts can guarantee it? I told her I do not account in Beijing ... ... Well, like you, ... ... > do not know the other sisters know the truth of what was for me, I just feel like the heart torn out of the thousands of people trampled on, feeling hot as fire, it seems that the bombing of the pan to brown a little.
me a little bit back to bed to lie down, thinking about how to do their own. Because I am a single child, young father told me that I have no brothers and sisters can rely on, always rely on their own, where things always met by themselves, must learn from these crybaby, Kusi was also solved the problem. I grew up this way of thinking
education was growing up, so the mind is always calm. Really, when the idea of mind seems to be hundreds of running and can also deemed a blank, I actually dizzy and fatigued sleep.
morning, get up, her husband has not woke up, I looked at his angular profile, the nose can not help but sour again. Get out of bed to do the breakfast, did not ask him, I ate a go first. At noon, I escaped to the McDonald's, carefully pondering it. My husband would not tell people he married, and certainly want to call that girl with Dandan, but he, after all, and I'm married, ah, and not see the way he has to divorce, and that girls can do so Light love not to get married? Is the girl and my husband are willing to love you talk about the marathon? The answer is definitely no, then her husband to do so because what is it?
is love? I do not know. One possibility is that her husband just want to play, but was soon rejected me, my husband has always been a good forward, certainly not the kind of people who just want to present not the future, if you tell others not to play with his marriage, and the future revealed the secret , as the importance of individual style in his unit, the end will be very sorry, he would not consider. Besides, really want to play it, not better than to find a unit? Well, according to common sense, certainly knew her husband was married before and I, as the first to know her, so getting married will be withheld, and that have knowledge of her, have a good impression on her, why should the same time, and I get married? Since it is and I'm married, why do you and the woman involved is unclear it?
husband is a very intelligent person, as I understand him, so into the calculation of the things he did will not do. It only a possibility that a woman can give my husband wanted to get something. Because the are asking her, so it was with her, and because a long time together, with the inevitable feelings is another. Might have been, the time is ripe again and I divorce unknown ah.
that her husband asked her what in the end there?
do not know why, I think accounts. Beijing accounts. Units husband and I said a lot of things, such as so and so has risen, which because it is Beijing which account it a priority, and so and so was appointed to the leadership because it is Beijing, and so, he repeated a lot, I know he is talented, but also intent on climbing, and even he wanted to
in politics, I do not know the line, may account for Beijing is really important to him, there was a time he even wanted the civil service examination to In order to have the possible in politics.
first thought was, he did so in order to engage in politics extramarital affair it? What is backing the woman in the end, can help her husband get Beijing accounts it?
me because of my job to know a few lawyers, thought, and I gave them called and ask how to skillfully handle the problem of Beijing accounts.
the answer I was surprised.
if my husband and one of them has at least a bachelor degree and work in Beijing more than two years, a residence permit can apply for work. Working residence permit their children to school, housing, and other areas and accounts with the same effect. Implementation of a residence permit for three years of work, you can apply for account of the. Residence permit, work must be handled by their work units.
husband is a bachelor's degree, work in Beijing, just two years, that the duties of a newspaper owned Dandan is the personnel department, does her husband want to take her first residence permit for the work it?
I think is very simple, lawyers told me that although the procedure is, but it is difficult to do in Beijing on account of the card is very strict, not so easy to apply, of course, if there are ways, I have a house, go through the back door, but also can be done as early as the.
happens husband some time ago asked me to change my name in the house Can the two of us all together!
This can not be coincidence. I was heart is cold. Obviously, he's the next step is the trick with me. Couples sharing a bed for so long, I had, keep me in? ! Keep a wary heart since, he has become even more closely observed, and the same time, and lawyers chatted, I learned how to transfer property.
4, can not easily divorce, I began to wonder
when the first reaction is to divorce.
We did not rush to have children, divorce is not difficult. But then his senses, if we divorce, even our jointly owned property I do not know how much it will definitely suffer. Has lost face, must not Zaishu lining. The man being the case for me, let me scared, lied to me so deeply, and I absolutely can not let him so easily calculated to me what his future house
urging me many times, every time I casually to stop over. Effect on the sloppy because I usually, he just do not care if I was,
gucci sunglasses 2011, and not suspicious. At the same time account of the things he could not settle so quickly, so he is not very anxious.
I certainly do not worry. The more time the more I have a chance.
I told him that a colleague would like to sell my house, very cheap, if a lump sum, it can be lower, he heard, his eyes lit up and told me to second-hand housing loans, let me think about it . I told him that my colleagues do not believe we can have the economic strength, he heard laughed, then put the book out, I saw married almost two years, we have saved nearly 15 million, is really to his credit ah! He said that we could start using my house as collateral, the loan to buy the house of my colleagues, by the way the house were to be corrected.
I thought that impossible, yet our house to pay off loans, the loan can not be another.
he was simply trying to use my house as collateral to buy a house of my colleagues, the house is naturally both of us, and my parents down naturally to him there.
unfortunately can not accomplish.
5, for the first time moves, so that her husband lost his job
opportunity soon came.
my classmates in the south made a fortune doing business as a trade fair to Beijing, the way to our home. He was very interested in the business of my classmates, I also welcome students to engage in sideline him out, then take the point that wages are no big breath death, he has always been a good strong person, at the time decided to invest in shares.
he took 100,000, and I want students to engage in the reselling of electronic products, as high north-south difference, the profit is also very thick.
I did not expect, just spent one hundred thousand to buy communications products to Beijing, Beijing out what the new policy (sorry, I'm kind of sloppy, does not remember), anyway, to limit reselling like this, These things just get hit in my hand. He was the people they covered.
looking for a long time to find relations, saying that his home had a company wants these goods, the price given is reasonable.
he decided to take the goods back home. It is most rampant when SARS. In Beijing, may not forget that dreadful period. His unit because of the state institutions, but also a
newspaper, so check the very tight, the newspaper strictly not allowed to leave Beijing without permission of any person, to leave their jobs in violation of those expelled. He did not say hello and leadership, then go to work anyway, is not so strict, outside the tight loose, he made a big mistake, thinking he is the backbone of leadership will love it. Wrong is ridiculous.
anonymous phone call that I play. I hit him directly leading newspaper office. Told the leader, he left Beijing for home without authorization.
leading tone of suppressed anger I hear out.
unit where I have been on holiday, one is doing good business, the second is that period, who dare not hanging around outside every day.
got off the phone later, not long after, I received his call to panic, I rushed to Henan. Of course I know how it was.
in Henan and Beijing, we met halfway. He frowned and told me that the leadership asked him where he lied, in Beijing, leaders sneer, let him report to the unit within two hours. He had rushed back. He asked me to deliver to. I promise to delivery, the car that I go through.
6, the second step by step, so that her husband money, goods may be two empty
God help me, I go to that boss sellers another way to actually bumped into a shop, also need these goods in large quantities because it is the students back to me, is I shipped, the cost is relatively low, I looked especially good this person speak, and poor bargain, after all, his heart gave a price to do before the end of went so far as to sell the goods as a whole a good price, net profit of three million units, all cash. I take the money and do not feel at ease
to find banks to save money, to be at the heart Fu Ling, opened an account, and not into our accounts that go public.
Then I drove back to Beijing. I'm sloppy and careless man, look for the road but also I do not understand that period, people who go to Beijing pitiful.
seems to be wrong on me. Say this is not one I remember very clearly, and second, I really do not know where that time went to the car. Anyway, open to a place, I'm sorry do not remember the name.
stomach felt particularly hungry, wanted to find a place to eat first say.
meal out, etc. I found that car was gone.
when the first reaction is alarm, so **** what the car when asked, I said the car all communications products.
day of my life did not lie so much, so bold. Completely without a brain, you then describe the direct and natural what my car, which the number of products. So I then take another train to Beijing when the lie has been a series of seamless Tianyi.
one to Beijing, he asked me how the boss said cargo has not arrived yet, and I said then and he took over too quickly, did not get under the boss phone, phone battery died, so I can not contact, had to drive back The result was stolen. How the **** I am questioning, to say clearly. He was the expression used to describe the surface, such as leakage into more appropriate. I would blame Needless to say, anyway, is to buy car insurance, and money do not worry.
the goods I know is that it pained him to death. But there is no way. ****
not doubt their ability, I think that car will never be regained.
one hundred and thirty thousand to become my own money.
there is still bad news, he really was fired.
fact, I had not thought he really be fired, it appears that the period of tension are resolutely ah something done, he dismissed the newspaper's Web site notice in their notice of personnel a year.
each subsequent bad mood, to see the dismissal notice, the mood will be much better.
I do not hide myself, at least I admit that open that page, my eyes are vicious.
how deep love, hate, there is deep, and this statement is also true.
now I have no feelings for him, showing a hint of fate is determined as well. Let me say that Dandan he did not know she was a fool or a fool, ranking
really believe her husband did not get married then, and perhaps a woman in love is not high IQ, and I do they not do
7, The third moves, her husband and another woman went to Happy, I'm at home
transfer of property after he lost his job every day drinking to forget, perhaps negligent, and even one day the telephone call at home that Dandan is I answered the phone, when most of her husband's sober, you can can not stop me.
I looked at her husband not restrain the cold sweat, laugh MiMi to the call to him.
hung up he did not say a few words, and said that Sure enough at night to hear what
sister's words.
a few days, he said, had a friend willing to lend him money, let him do business, I asked what he intends to do business, he said, comparing the home to open business offices to make money, he wanted to return home to look at.
do not know why, at the time an intuition that this money must be lent to him that Dandan. Why go home
can it? He is not wanted to stay in Beijing it?
he returned home the next day, I call directly to the newspaper, the tone is very easy to ask,
really is and go with Happy the Dandan.
my blood boil. Although it is fire, but I did not call him. He certainly needs the quiet this time.
I did not idle at home. I was at home when he found me in the book, and his bank card, I took a picture keep them in case.
I sell my house online. In fact, doing so, I was very scared, the one I do not know the house is worth is not worth selling, and secondly, fear of selling the house so he knows what if a major event, I come to naught, until today, then I admire my courage, a man in Beijing, no one deal is off, even the parents do not know, made a claim on a person, really a bit scared ah. Perhaps because in order to sneak it!
posted online two days before someone asked to see the house. There are two read, feel more satisfied, because I also loan to buy a house, there is no real estate license and the like, referred to loans is too much trouble. They said need to think about.
but he would be returning soon.
time is very tight. Just the day before he was to come back and see one of the house decided to buy my house.
I might compare Mianshan this person, it is particularly reliable at first glance, people buy the one that the house more comfortable for me, I made an appointment with them one time, they could get off my parents did not the down payment, and loans the past few years I have, so I set at two months after the primary deposit, submitted to live in one hand.
8, the fourth step by step, to give her husband the error proposals
he came back, it seems very happy, that his account may inadvertently be able to get the end, I was surprised and asked him how he went to the Henan Instead, things to know Beijing, he also found himself a slip of the tongue to casually with before. I have not asked.
not so good in fact, I cover the people, since the know the truth, I change his attitude or big, I was not so good for cooking washing, are no longer clamoring to accompany him to walk, More to quietly move along, bought a lot of new books, maybe I do not usually talk much, his heart to lose a car, lost money, lost working level, upset, no matter the surrounding then got the idea, and second, he calls every night and that Dandan, sweet and just two returning from Henan, was drinking in the sweetness of extra-marital affairs, I have not taken the initiative to him, what he wanted, so he told me, still is a little suspect not. Dandan may be true that lend money to him, he should do in my hometown in Henan, opened sales offices.
was selected for the address of the business hall, he asked my opinion, there is a small place, but in the city center, rent is more expensive, and another in the more remote areas, the rent is cheap, but also to a Rent Rent 10 years, is a big place, very well equipped, you can buy equipment directly opened.
fact is very clear my mind which one is better, although the center of the house expensive, but the terrain is good, faster recovery of money; remote that family, though cheaper, something complete, but the rent must be rent for a 10 , 10 years is too large, the money invested in it on the insurance too. But I say that remote a good home. He was pleased, saying that I think just like him. He said the store rented a remote, although I have to rent for 10 years, but as long as a year or two open up a piece of the lot, the house will be worth a look, then even if he did not open for business hall, put the house sublet , to make a difference can make a killing. Finally, he really drive down the shop.
I certainly did not stop, but not to spend my money, why should I Guannameduo it? Moreover, the day
not far away from the divorce.
I'm almost prepared.
9, the fifth step by step, drive a wedge between her husband and his creditors
advance into his operating room is too large, because he wants to show in his hometown, he was a reporter in the capital, is a senior person, and now is to do something big for homecoming, so have paid in advance to do a gimmick, but after all the remote places, not many guests. So a lot of money in it, the family moved West, the money I moved east, leaving only twenty thousand, and I did all of his personal feelings, of course, it is called to support him, so he is grateful. (And I have the same experience and sisters, should have such a feeling, sometimes, money is not important, the key is what kind of money to achieve the effect)
he still lost, so I asked a few home Friends by the hundreds of thousands of dollars. These days, people really willing to lend him, I said earlier, his great eloquence.
this time he was busy every day in my hometown in Henan, Beijing did not attend to things that do not return home even once a month. Last appointment to buy a house, the money did not put together with the delay of a month I hit my wants. Sure enough, the approaching end of the year, several friends have asked him for money out. His room is still loss-making business transactions. He especially worried, and finally hit pay attention to my house, this time he did not know, the house sold soon. He asked me if I can not do mortgage the house, I say not, because the loans are even real estate are not, how can mortgage it? He began talking about his business offices have begun to make money, business is especially good, you can not still be friends, money, first we house loans also, but I'm going into my house and his two names. I said can ah, now to the end of the year, things are much, so next spring it. He seems to account for the house in great need of proof that he was in a hurry to do that before the end of it. I said, Well, you Xianba Qian call back, I took loans to pay off the house, Banfangchanzheng time, just the way we write the names of two people. He was silent for a long time, said the business was too busy recently, a few days then. Perhaps an act of God, just a few days he had a friend lend something to Beijing, at the time to find me, meaning I had to see before the holiday can also on the money. I lied. I said no, right, H said, made a lot of money, but we have not paid off mortgage to do, H said that the money you have to line slowly, first paying the money on the house. The friend then heard on the silly, because the H in my hometown in Henan have been saying that their not making money, soon lost dead. Friends say, and their wives to say, that people must believe that his wife is really saying. So the man stormed back to Henan, the. H on the phone that night a friend asked me why I say that, I'll play the fool, I said it was not said to still own your own home
house money? He was shooting itself in the foot, even if the killing, there is no way for me.
who force him more and more money tight, he Duohui Beijing.
I said to him, still at home, so bored, it had better go out and see it get some fresh air.
he heard rejoicing, then you say no money, I said a few days ago you do not let me help you made preparations for the wages of workers in the New Year to you, I'm ready, you do not send their workers first, and leave them New Year how ever, the arrears of the company are not you a man. Relax yourself out of it first hand.
fact, this is test his character, a mix of people in the community, integrity is very important, it is natural or a number of others do.
did not think he was overjoyed, and took the money even said OK good.
my heart completely dead.
he thought, then asked me, you and I go to relax it?
I noticed he used is a question, I said do not, units busy.
him that did not retain, say that I went out and scattered scattered boring boring, especially his own re-word bite.
course I know he would not himself go.
but by that time already despise his character, and gas fell to the second. He went to Hainan, but I did not make him better than I would from time to time each day to call him, tell him to come to anyone who has debt, and so and so said something relentless.
fact, someone really ask for money, I was just at home, come to ask him where to go, I said to the resort of Hainan.
really want that person to
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