Love is a choice for them

One man told me that love is to choose , when I heard these words , the fear ! already have protection on the line I love , but want it a strong line of defense ! true , Love is a choice? chosen not regret it! I was hesitant , but also in the choice of slack in front of it! Once chosen, not that decision? but I think love is not a decision, but a feeling ! If we can decide who fall in love , then it is much simpler --- of course, was not so amazing !
Everyone has their own view of love it, every time I hear when a person's point of view , no matter how right or how unreasonable, I can do only Can be heard , but can not put up for the idea that any one word !
your conclusion that it is full of love, power , what ?