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in their personal lives more free and open today, on the one hand there are so many good good girl to be called romantic suave, glib the men one by one to lie to go to bed, played after a while, then one by one to hurry out of bed to go. Reconciled to the failure of their Queyu setback courage, by virtue of the youth, while the scars of their own Tianshi the heart, then he moved to the side of the bed of another man, dedicated to chasing the happiness you want, but happiness is often farther and farther away from their frustration. . . . . . ; The other hand, there are so many good good boy because they do not know how to contact with the girl, helplessly watching their favorite girls be taken away, or even hurt others, but it can only be Guyingzilian, helpless.
perhaps the world just how unfair, how would there be so much not to soul-stirring, tear-jerking love story?
has gone through as a young woman journey, I still want something different from another point of view, give honest is honest, the boys love to add some more suggestions to be a little more help.
First, do not do what is not just an empty waiting to take the initiative to show their
Do not wait for girls to discover you, although this possibility, but it is minimal. In fact, visiting her boyfriend like a girl choose clothes shop election, no one of a number of shelves with a shelf to see, is swept into a store one, and if things do not attract their attention and immediately go to the next shop. They are displayed to attract the largest model in print ads or on the clothes, although they do not necessarily buy, but the vision is to stay a lot.
So, even if you are honest dull boy, do not go on a corner when a piece of clothing on a shelf. Put out their own show, let others see you! Participate in school, unit, social activities, the ability to maximize your advantage to do big challenge, creative, different things, such as their small to wear, hairstyles, desks, furnishings, etc. Although these are not directly touch the girls, but girls can make more more opportunity to notice you. Your display may not be perfect, it does not matter, do not think about how many notes you have in the end people will appreciate you, as long as there are several, or even just a girl showing appreciation to your eyes, you have a successful start.
second, the courage to take the first step
is the first step, do not let those girls around you quell a steady stream of men, make you feel ashamed and humble form. You know the secret is: in fact, they kicked the iron is much larger than the number of times to come by. While the men are good at chasing women have tricks, but have the same two points: courageous, thick-skinned.
bold enough to take the initiative that the appearance of modesty and pride girls often just a shell to protect themselves, as long as you do polite and generous,, they will not refuse you a friendly greeting and a smile of sunshine , this may be your first step towards love.
Third, do not fear defeat numerous, because you only need a successful
Do not be afraid to be rejected. You definitely do not appreciate a girl is not your fault, just as you do not appreciate a girl is not her fault the same reason. Even if the girls refused to be a hundred does not matter, is denied does not diminish the quality of your character and, while you need is a success, once is enough. Sometimes a girl though
also appreciate you like you do not love you, let you feel the pain of unrequited love, but step back and think, put down the romance, but also to keep a good confidante is not hard to come by?
will only bother to bring men and women chasing the success rate calculation, sincere man, yearning for a life only fate.
Fourth, the sense of balance, patience and tolerance
honest girl will face stiff boys nervous, afraid to make mistakes, the wrong situation, wrong. In fact need not, in fact, you have to do is be yourself, and let people see you clearly the advantages of white, characteristics and shortcomings, but also more to see your honesty. There is no perfect man, you do not have the expense of their own honest to hide his shortcomings, is neither possible nor worth it. Even if you can hide a moment I, can hide? The result is nothing but a waste of time and feelings to each other.
Do not contact the girls for a full head immediately thought to love, create for ourselves an atmosphere of tension. Sense of balance, from friends to start, go with the flow, you can have the best performance, the biggest opportunity. There is a saying that chasing girls
appreciation, love and love is no clear boundary between the girls themselves are often confused, boys to be patient enough to give girls the fuzzy space. Sometimes like a woman and even revel in such a blur, which for half a man playing a man who happens to be hazy, golden opportunity to play emotional games, but for the honest boy who is honest, but inevitably emergency fire got the idea. Another secret you want to know is: a woman's love like the tortoise in fact, that dangerous, when fear of being caught in the crunch in the hard shell, the more reduced the more knock a tight grip, only in the sense that there was no danger of the time will Yaotouhuangnao out, dancing. This is called
the world, there is no perfect woman, you love a girl she will be ready to accept all of the advantages and disadvantages. Cynical men just want to girls to bed, turn a blind eye to her shortcomings, and even sweet talk that it was an advantage, so the girls happy. Honest dull boy cherish their feelings, often can not tolerate a dislike of the place, caught both accept only reluctant to give up the pain. You want to know, she can not tolerate the shortcomings of your life to the degree of acceptance, do not force himself a moment, give yourself time the next day laid BoB!!!.
fifth, into the girl's world
although you may be financial experts, IT elite, entrepreneurial genius, but you and the girls of the world do not necessarily intersect. A lot of good talented boys, but their field of knowledge allows the girls can not find even the doors.
no way, you have to take the initiative to enter her world, use your intelligence and wisdom, in the summer to find out this fall, when the most popular styles of women's boots, remember that she was chasing a lot and is not fresh superstar and when they will be out in the open what any concert album, beauty makeup, taste in clothes, and camera photography, and so, even if you know nothing about, they have to stay up all night cramming,
70种汤 - Qzone日记, and good in at least these things can not be better than you more difficult to understand even more boring professional. Mastery of these things, overripe in mind, you can keep to her surprise one by one, and then enjoy the fascination she has for you.
sixth, a girl
woman is the glory of vanity, is always in the comparison between women with their men, you have to do her honor. Put your talents, strengths, achievements, knowledge, all the good aspects to tell her that she would turn around and tell her to go around ten times exaggerate the boudoir companion, the expression of envy and jealousy to others is your plus. Money, maybe she does not care about how much you spend for her, but you do not let her boudoir friends think you are a stingy package. The same bunch of flowers, sent to her office to her dorm room than better, the face is often more important than the lining.
the sixth, leading into the mind of the local
with While there are many ethical controversy, but the woman's love can be I wish you please, when injection of love paid off, and not be too hesitant. Just to give you a chance, there will be many other not honest, do not stiff the people to fight, or cheat. Wish does not necessarily guarantee good happy ending, when the time who regret? Who is hurt?
I know it certainly is not a small controversy, I will not say more. Finally, I
briefly. I am 35 years old, 21-year-old started talking about love, have a relationship with 4,5 bit her boyfriend, finally married the first boyfriend, married 11 years after the divorce. Now his son with me, he would have finished this summer, a fifth grade reading. Life on and off the past few years there have been many men, but so far these people can only be considered passing. I wrote in the blog, some interesting and interesting things, some of his own experience, the story of some friends, interested users are welcome to look.
Anyway, I feel that life made me understand how a man is going on, a woman and how it was. So write down this article,
顺转剖的痛苦经历,闺女,娘爱你。 - Qzone日志, would like a good boy, good girl all the world to find a good ownership, the old married lover.