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※ ※ psychologists believe that many couples fight to the end, have developed into a \Almost all of the quarrel were nothing to the Cold War. Then, in the quarrel, how to effectively communicate it? Experts put forward three \-
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● without cynicism. \But this trick has a great negative impact,
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● did not interrupt him. Rebuff him or break him, you think you know perfectly well what he was trying to say is, this is nothing more than \If you refuse to listen, then listen to the other side will pay attention to how your ideas? I would ask you to understand,
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