Ten reasons for having an affair marriage motives

Yesterday, the official hotline of Chongqing's first marriage and family guidance center hotline emotional anniversary of the day. According to statistics, the past two years, volunteers pick up nearly 6,000 emotional telephone, Internet help more than 560 people, of which 80% is having an affair problem. They also succeeded in nearly half of the derailment were saved.
affair of the top ten reasons

Third Party affairs is it?
emotional hot head Li Jinwei said, not entirely, and sometimes an affair is forced to, it seems the aggrieved party, perhaps greater responsibility. Judging from the hotline, resulting in an affair with ten reasons. The top four are :

first marriage motives. Marriage is for a purpose, for the money or the desire to meet the parents, resulting in unhappy married life.
and the second a couple of character. Marriage only to find the parties do not and, there will be some noise in the desire to find a third party.
third values ​​are significant differences between the two sides. When one party in the cause of the rapid development, will find their partner can not keep pace with the deviation of its values.
Fourth, poor communication husband and wife. This is often the reason many people divorce, marriage, lack of communication tend to die out.
the remaining six are: differences in role expectations, family background differences, parents of intervention in marriage, to teach the child the attitude differences, lifestyle differences, other factors (such as unemployment, illness, accident, the two separated,chaussures de foot, etc.).
old shy consulting

are often young, middle-aged man in front of the consultants to talk about third party interference, the elderly rarely seek help.
Li Jinwei introduced two years, the hotline is only picked up three people over the age of 60, impressed the reason why is because the three examples are typical of the elderly. The first is the uncle of 67-year-old Zhang, old age after the death of his wife, has found a suitable partner to marry, but the children do not agree. Reason is that the other family is not good, partakers of property is suspect.
help the elderly are the second a 61-year-old aunt,mercurial vapor, she wanted a divorce because her husband endured a lifetime alcoholics, children now grown up, really do not want Renxia Qu the. Mother is still in doubt: such a great age of divorce, not only do not support their children, the outside world has strange eyes.
third callers said, his sickness, and fear of a drag on his wife, wanted to consultants out of ideas.
Li Jinwei want this newspaper to tell the elderly: the caller is not consulting psychological problems, so that consultants out of ideas, a consultant Swing troubles, and also not a bad idea.
help men accounted for Liu Cheng

collapse, life is very exciting.
Li Jinwei said that since the hotline opened, 20% of men reached the hotline is to talk. Work pressure, tension between husband and wife, married life uncoordinated, are the subject of men to talk. They know they are wrong, by conscience, do not know what to do. Some people having an affair for several decades, the wife did not know. In addition, the public can consult the Internet, QQ number 592090991.
hotline set up to celebrate the anniversary, family and marriage guidance centers to provide the value of 150 100 survey of marital quality (ENRICH) , marital status to help you do a physical examination, the public can call the hotline for registration.