Dexterity - Second most important stat for me. Here's where I'll go into a little PvP. To be effective at Melee PvP, you need plenty of Dex. (
buy and sell 9dragons gold). You can add as many points as you want into dex, but in the end, we're still a bit short of the tools other classes get. So, you might as well focus on adding strength so that you can at least grind quickly Basic point, I would not try to boost PvP capability on a healer until at least Strength is maxed out.
offer 9dragons guide. If you're going to follow my example, what you want to do is pretty much leave Dex at the weapon minimum requirement.
Use the info to stay on top of your Dex requirements. Know what the coming levels of weaponry will require, and be sure you're prepared. Please note the slight jump going from FD to SM. They aren't too accurate at the higher levels of weaponry, but for new healers, its reliable. By RL or FD, you shouldn't even be coming back here for advice on how to play healer.
cheapest 9Dragons gold. You can go to Hefei or ask Band Members for weapon requirement info. For BoT Axe users, your lower weapon balance will give you more external wounds than say a glove user.
9Dragons gold. Some add about 10-15 dex above the weapon req to make this more manageable, but hey, you've got an External Wounds Heal. Your call.
Wisdom - Uhh, not sure what to say. I don't think Wisdom's really important, our two nukes &#!@ anyway. I left mine at 12 for relic usage. If you don't know what relics are, use the search button. Don't put much in here.....=P....and I really mean that.