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Old 06-22-2011, 10:25 AM   #1
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Default 女子执意要嫁死刑男友甘做后妈 曾为其流产4次

本报记者采访阿玉

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  一名乐东女子与男友同居10年,并为其生下一个孩子;与男友相差14岁,父母百般阻止直至决裂,也阻挡 不住她的决心;男友抢劫一审被判死刑,她却执意要与死刑男友结婚,只为给爱找一个合法理由。但因男友的囚犯 身份,不能到婚姻登记机关办理结婚手续,她的结婚梦,难圆。

  “你们能帮帮我吗?我想与我‘老公’结婚,他被判了死刑……”记者面前的阿玉(化名)一脸疲惫和哀戚, 但是她眼里的坚决让记者动容。一个弱女子,是什么样的原因让她如此坚定地要与一个死刑犯结婚呢 ?

  乐东女孩情定海口

  为爱甘做两孩“后妈”

  “他不是我的初恋,但他是我的最爱。”说起男友林绍胜,37岁的阿玉一脸悲伤。她告诉记者,2000年 春节刚过,她从老家乐东到海口打工。她和林绍胜的相遇一点也不浪漫,两人是在医院看病时相识的。当时林绍胜 刚做完手术,身体还很虚弱。但就是这样一个一脸苍白、难掩病容的中年男子,让阿玉心里有了难言的触动。那次 林绍胜是来复诊的,那次手术花完了他仅有的20万元钱。而因为这个病,林绍胜当时同居的女友也在1999年 离开了他。

  阿玉说她当时觉得这个男人真的很坚强,遭遇到这么多不幸的事,还能那么乐观。“我很感动,也很同情他。 ”阿玉说,也许是因为这样,她对林绍胜完全没有陌生人该有的疏离感。因为一见如故,两人彼此留下了联系电话 。

  从那以后,阿玉常被林绍胜打电话叫到他家给他和两个孩子做饭。刚开始时是作为朋友来帮忙的,一来二往, 两人感情渐深,彼此都有了相伴一生的念头。终于在几个月后的一天,林绍胜向阿玉提出:“你搬过来一起住吧。 ”没有甜言蜜语,没有鲜花美酒,只是一句简简单单的话。但是阿玉就是因这一句话“陷落”了。她搬到了林家, 做了林绍胜两个孩子(一个12岁,一个7岁)的“后妈”,当时阿玉才26岁,而林绍胜已经是40岁的中年男 子。

  家人阻止藏起身份证

  她无名无分与男友同居10年

  阿玉说,因为他们年龄悬殊,林绍胜又是两个孩子的父亲,她的家人怎么也不同意他们在一起。“为了跟他在 一起,我甚至差点以死相逼。”

  当时家人以断绝关系威胁阿玉,阿玉无奈,狠下心想与男友分手,因此她不告而别,躲回了乐东老家。“如果 不是看到他留下的那包烟,我们之间可能就那么完了。”阿玉告诉记者,跟男友分手后,她心里一直放不开,每天 都过得很不开心。那天她出去散心,回来后,看到放在桌上的一包烟,浑身一震,眼泪夺眶而出。这种烟是林绍胜 的朋友从澳门带回来给他的。阿玉一看到烟,就明白林绍胜来过了,而对他极度厌恶的家人绝不会给他好脸色看的 。阿玉看到他能做到这地步,再也控制不住自己满腔的情意,立即收拾行李不顾家人的反对到海口找 男友。

  说起当年的执着,阿玉脸上浮起淡淡的微笑。看得出来,对于当年的冲动,她完全没有后悔。“家人藏起了我 的身份证和户口簿,不让我跟他在一起。可是他们不知道,我不在乎名分。只要能跟他在一起,那些虚名我完全不 在乎。”就这样,阿玉与林绍胜同居了10年。

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  2002年9月26日,林绍胜与同伙巩广海、王强在鸿运大酒店抢劫美容院老板娘。阿玉为此也被法院判三 年缓五年。而林绍胜共参与了三起抢劫案件,做为同居多年的女友阿玉又是怎么做的呢?

  阿玉说,不知道什么时候,案犯巩广海和王强租了他们家一楼的一个套房。刚开始时,阿玉并没有意识到不对 ,林绍胜在外搞装修,装电,自己偶尔出去打工,日子过得平静而快乐。2002年,王强安排阿玉进一家美容院 打探一女子的情况。阿玉说,她当时不知道他们想做什么,案发后,她在客厅听到他们在房间说事的时候才知道的 。

  她当时很气愤,没想到林绍胜竟然会做出这么伤天害理的事,还拉自己下水。“当时我气得真的很想跟他分手 ,但是他一直求我,跟我说,他并没有动手。”阿玉还是没有办法放弃这段好不容易赢得的感情,在林绍胜再三的 恳求下,阿玉最终还是留了下来。她不断劝说林绍胜把那个惹事的房客巩广海赶走,不把房子租给他们了。但是林 绍胜说已经晚了,脱不了身了,如果退出,肯定会被两人报复。

  “多次劝说无效之下,我也没有办法了。我不想因为这些事伤了夫妻之间的感情,而且他脾气很大,说多了他 就发火。作为妻子,我真的不知道该做些什么来劝阻他。”阿玉说。

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  但却是她眼中的好“丈夫”

  2008年9月28日,警方在海口面前坡林绍胜的家里将其抓获,当时,一家三口正睡得香甜。当天,阿玉 主动到公安机关投案自首,并交还当时她从美容院老板娘存折里取出的3700元钱。林绍胜被抓,阿玉痛苦不已 ,看着才7个多月大的儿子,阿玉一脸茫然,以后该怎么办?

  “在别人看来,他是个十恶不赦的大坏人,但是在我和宝宝心里,他是个好丈夫、好爸爸。”阿玉说到这里时 ,满脸的温柔。

  阿玉曾经为林绍胜流产四次。四次啊,一个女人再三地因为同一个男人受这样的伤害,如果不是因为爱还能有 什么理由呢?四次的流产让阿玉的身体受到很大的伤害,louis vuitton bags,在怀第五个孩子的时候,阿玉不知道怎么处理。“你流了这么多次孩子,再流产对身体伤害很大的。再说你年纪 也大了,再不生以后就来不及了。”是林绍胜为她拿主意,让她生下孩子。

  因为是高龄产妇,生孩子的时候阿玉受了很多苦,整整痛了12个小时,庆幸的是林绍胜一直陪着她,抓着她 的手,给她力量。“他一直陪着我,以前他不管去哪里,也都带着我。他对我,真的是很好。”对宝宝,林绍胜也 是疼爱有加,不断给宝宝买东西。

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  第一次开庭是在去年5月份,cool nike air max。差不多8个月没见面,阿玉在看到林绍胜的第一眼,眼泪就刷的流了出来。看着林绍胜渴望的眼神落在怀里的儿 子身上,阿玉抱着孩子,奋力地想挣脱法庭工作人员的阻止。在始终没办法过去的情况下,阿玉哭着哀求工作人员 :“我求求你们了,让他抱抱孩子吧!”

  看着那样可爱的孩子一脸天真地冲着工作人员笑,阿玉哭得更伤心了。工作人员的手渐渐松了开来,阿玉抱着 孩子跌跌撞撞地冲到林绍胜面前,两人相对无言,只是让脸上的泪水不停滑落。许久,林绍胜缓缓地问:“家里还 好吗?你们还好吗?”一时之间阿玉都不知道怎么开口,coach store,只是不停地点头,脸上的泪水狂流。

  林绍胜看着可爱的儿子,铐在背后的手颤抖着,没办法摸摸孩子的脸。他只能把自己的脸倾向儿子,碰碰儿子 的脸,亲了儿子粉嫩的脸颊一下,不停喃喃地念叨:“宝宝,宝宝……”即使眼前的一幕再让人动容,相聚的时间 也是如此短暂。很快,林绍胜和阿玉就站在被告席,等待第一次开庭。

  一审判决男友被判死刑

  她想与死刑男友结婚

  今年1月8日,一审判决终于下来了。阿玉被判处有期徒刑三年,缓刑五年。林绍胜被判处死刑。“当时我脑 子一片空白,只是呆呆地看着被媒体记者包围的他。他一直跟我说他没有动手啊,怎么就被判了死刑呢?”阿玉说 在一审判决下来之前,她和林绍胜一直以为只要坐20来年牢就可以出来了,所以很多事情都还没来 得及安排。

  儿子今年2岁了,很快就要上学读书,但是还没有上户口。当时她是想等孩子再大一点,抱孩子去求父母,希 望打动父母,把证件拿出来,两人办理结婚证。但是还没等他们做完这些事,林绍胜就被抓了。“作为一个女人, 最大的愿望就是嫁给自己爱的男人,louis vuitton handbags。林绍胜被判死刑了,我们再不结婚就一切都晚了。”阿玉说,跟林绍胜结婚,不仅是为了给孩子上户口,也为了 在法律上,她要成为林绍胜的妻子。

  “我跟他10年的感情,在他可能再也没有机会回来的情况下,我不希望10年的感情连一个名正言顺的结果 都没有。我爱他,所以我希望留下些什么,我想成为他合法的妻子。”阿玉说,她只是单纯地爱着他,爱着他们的 孩子,她和林绍胜都想给孩子一个身份。

  阿玉说,她问过文昌民政局,他们的请求,根本就不可能获批。因为《婚姻法》第八条规定,要求结婚的男女 双方必须亲自到婚姻登记机关进行结婚登记。而林绍胜目前被关押在看守所,根本不能到婚姻登记机关办理结婚手 续。 来源:南国都市报

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