"Sales is a transference of feelings" according to Zig Ziglar. How good are you at building those feelings or emotions with your qualifying process if you are engaged in relationship selling?
Many salespersons fail to emotionalize the sales process within their sales approach as they look to qualify or even fact find. These educated professionals forget that potential customers (a.k.a. prospects) are living breathing human beings who buy to meet their known and unknown needs based upon emotions. This is why those initial few second when you meet someone for the first time are so necessary to sales success even if the meeting is over the telephone.
Emotionalizing the desire is fairly simple when directly connecting the feelings to a future goal or objective. This then makes the question as easy as:
Why is achieving this goal, objective or desire important to you?
This qualifying question delivers several other results to further differentiate you from all those other gray suits in that very crowded marketplace.
First, you are now building pain. This is being done subconsciously as well as consciously when you ask what happens if the goal is not achieved? Many sales persons are just focused on selling their products or services and fail to demonstrate authentic concern.
Another benefit of this question is that you may learn what this person values. What people values is usually what motivates them to go to that next step within the sales process.
Additionally, you may learn of any other participants within the decision making process. For example, you are speaking with the sales manager and he shares part of his gain is recognition by his boss. Then you can ask a follow-up question such as: How will your boss be involved in this potential solution?
To be different, to be what I call the Red Jacket, continues from your initial meeting and may even begin during the qualification stage of your sales process. When you can create a situation whereby you are walking in that potential customer's shoes
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I can't find my voice. I want to scream or confront the person, but I get a lump in my throat.SECTION EI want to go away and avoid the whole thing because it causes too much anxiety.I go away emotionally. I feel frozen or paralyzed or simply disappear and show up when it's all over.I am shocked. I can't believe it. It all becomes a blur.To establish your
Primary Emotional Response Patterns, count the checks for each section. Then look at the section that has the most checks. That's your
Primary Emotional Response Patterns.Section A= Defective Section B=Fixer Section C=Saint Section D=Follower Section E=Sleepwalker Types of Toxic Magnets We humans are complex beings. Once you have dived into the infinite layers of the subconscious
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Therefore, the types that are presented in this self-assessment barely scratch the surface of your
Toxic Magnet behaviors and beliefs. Furthermore
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Toxic Magnet Type.However, recognizing your
Primary Emotional Responses allows you to spot how a specific toxic person or situation triggers a specific type of
Toxic Magnet response in you. Since you cannot change the other, but you can change your responses, this information empowers you to change the responses that keep you hooked in the
Toxic Dance. Once you know how you are attracting or allow toxic relationships, your next step is to break free from them.
Section A: The Defectives If you checked a majority of items in Section A, you may respond to the
Toxic Magnet Type called
Defectives. The
Defectives secretly feel defective, damaged, less than others or insufficient. They seek to gain value by giving, being good, serving others, placating or appeasing or by playing second best.If you fit this profile, this does not mean that you ARE defective. It means that the
Ugly Duckling is alive somewhere in your psyche, stealing the majestic Swan you truly are. This hooks you up with toxic people, who are big blamers. Their blaming triggers your secret feelings of not being enough and keeps you hooked in the
Toxic Dance.