one, you care about each other more
you in a relationship, but not to determine each other's ideas; you think you are right, he seems to disagree; he is not when you want him, you is not no difference, he seems, does this mean? \ If one mind, how can we walk it? \ Always play one suitor, such feelings are not sound, long continue, you will love hungry, you will feel controlled by the other side, you will feel angry, cheated and suffering.
Second, you love each other's potential
you love each other's potential, rather than the other really, the way you love each other's future might look like, he is not your partner, but that you transform the object. Each time we make pre-marital counseling will be asked if the other party fifty years will not change, you will be satisfied with it? If you still want to change each other, then they would feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling with the happiness of both sides as a bet.
when dealing with a person you should love and respect each other's Benxiang, rather than his future look like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with the way he is.
Third, you want to help each other
you often feel sorry for each other? Do you think they have a responsibility to help each other perk up? you will not be afraid to leave the other party if he will not stand against? If so, you probably is a \ \ Find a traumatized, vulnerable, dependent, unloved, wronged people, you love by the Health and pity, you are grateful, he will, like the feelings of such a rescue mission, not a sound, balanced emotions. So we do not encourage counseling brothers and sisters, or brothers and sisters, counseling, because there are people who will be Qicheng pity of love. As a rescue mission, often mistakenly thought that love is to sympathize. The key to remember here is to respect, your object of love must be people you can respect,
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four, the other as the object of worship
fell in love with the young actress the director, college students fall in love with professors, secretaries fell in love with the boss, fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal, because between the two can not be treated equally. Both men and women must be treated equally, I do not mean status, but the attitude, not idolize each other. Fall in love with the object of worship, often self-confidence is low, they feel very bad .
Jesus said: You shall love your neighbor as yourself, if you can not love yourself, how to love others? If you idolize each other, this feeling will not have results.
five, you are just attracted by the other party outside
everyone that, right? If you find yourself being attracted to each other to a character, to ask ourselves if there is no other pair of big blue eyes, magnetic sound,
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six short opportunities in daily life
you and your partner to share a job, often with overtime, so you feel in love with each other. You go on vacation for three weeks, also came to know a man on vacation, you feel like falling in love. Short morning till evening, in exceptional circumstances is a piece of hash is not on track, this feeling will not last long, because the short time I felt I could not make you fully understand each other's personality.
seven, in order to rebel before choosing this object
parents always told you stressed the need to find a rich object,
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the eighth, the other party is not free themselves
this point I leave to the last, because it can not be emotional. The first choice partner for life provided that - the other is \
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If you love the man promised to break up earlier, and another woman; or he says he does not love that woman, and he loves you; or to accept his original object of your existence,
belstaff brad jacket, they do not intend to break up But he wanted to be with you for a while; or he just broke up, but may reunion, these are not free themselves.
other and married or those who object interaction, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget,
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