Leve Necklace White gold-Jewelry Trade Fairs
 

Trade organizations of jewelry
 

The list below includes some of the most famous trade shows for jewelry taking place in myriad countries. These shows give traders means to display and demonstrate their range of jewelry including gemstones, minerals, gold, silver and other jewelry related products. These trade shows happen to be world’s largest exhibition for jewelry attracting a huge crowd of people. Traders with their unique traditional jewelry as well as the costume jewelry participate in these exhibitions to offer people with unique jewelry choices.

 

These shows are an excellent means to display your products and build a strong network by getting noticed by traders in the same field. There are more than 2000 jewelry trade shows taking place across the world. Below is the list of some of the most popular jewelry shows in USA and Europe.

 

 
ABOUT J Venue: Fiera di Vicenza            City:Vicenza  ( Italy ) Month: 22.02 - 24.02 2009
 

 
PAVILLON DES ANTIQUAIRES ET DES BEAUX ARTS Description: Furniture, Drawings, Paintings, Sculpture from the Renaissance to our days, Antiquities, Modernism, Photography, Design, Primitive Arts, Asian Art, Contemporary Glass, Jewellery, Silver,cartier trinity pen, Carpets, Tapestries...   Venue: Jardin des Tuilleries City: Paris  ( France ) Month: 01.04 - 05.04 2009
 
PERU MODA International Trade Show of Textile Description:  Apparel, Footwear and Jewellery  Venue: Museo de la Nacion      City: Lima  ( Peru ) Month: April
 
GEM WORLD Description: Gems & Precious Stones Venue: Rimini Fiera City: Rimini  ( Italy ) Month: April
 
MOSTRA EUROJÓIA Description: Gold, Silver,Cartier Women's Watches, Jewelry and Watches Exhibition         Venue: Batalha Centro de Exposições   City: Batalha  ( Portugal ) Month: May    
 
JEWELRY EXPO Description: International Jewelry Exhibition      Venue: International Fair Plovdiv           12.05 - 17.05 2009 City:Plovdiv  ( Bulgaria ) Month: May
 
EPHJ Description: Watch and Jewellery Professional Environment Exhibition Venue: Palais de Beaulieu         12.05 - 15.05 2009 City: Lausanne  ( Switzerland ) Month: May
 

 
JEWELLER EXPO UKRAINE Description: International Specialized Exhibition in Jewelry                     Venue: KievExpoPlaza Exhibition Center          City: Kiev  ( Ukraine ) Month: Twice a year, May
 
JEWELLER MASH EXPO Description: Specialized exhibition of equipment for jewelry production  Venue: KievExpoPlaza Exhibition Center          City: Kiev  ( Ukraine ) Month: May
 
SALON OF ACCESSORIES & FASHIONABLE ADORNMENTS Description: Specialized exhibition of accessories and fashionable adornments    Venue:  KievExpoPlaza Exhibition Center         City: Kiev  ( Ukraine ) Month: May
 
International Exhibition of Gold, Description: Jewelry and Silverware      Venue: Fiera di Vicenza            City: Vicenza  ( Italy ) Month: May
 
VICENZA ORO Description: International Show dedicated to Gold and Silverware, Jewellery and Gemology      Venue: Fiera di Vicenza City: Vicenza  ( Italy ) Month: Thrice a year, May
 
NEW RUSSIAN STYLE (MOSCOW) Description: International Specialized Exhibition of Gifts, Adornments and Watches Venue: Gostiny Dvor – Moscow City: year          Moscow ( Russia ) Month: May
 
CHIBIDUE Description: International Exhibition of Gift Articles, Perfumery Items, Costume Jewelry and Smokers' Supplies  Venue: Fiera Milano City City: Milan ( Italy ) Month: May
 

 

 
USA LUXURY & PREMIERE Description: Jewellery Event      Venue: Fiera Milano City City: Las Vegas, NV  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: May
 
USA COUTURE JEWELRY COLLECTION & CONFERENCE Description: Annual Couture Jewellery Collection & Conference            Description: Wynn Las Vegas Resort City: Las Vegas, NV  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: May    
 
ELITE LIFE Description: International exhibition of golf industry, jewelry, yachts, motor boats, expensive and rare automobiles, horses, antiques, elite furniture and real estate, works of art and luxury articles,cartier 18 carat yellow gold straight necklace, leisure and business aviation        Venue: Le Meridien Moscow Country Club City: Moscow  ( Russia ) Month: May
 
USA THE JCK SHOW – LAS VEGAS Description: Jewelry manufacturers, designers, and watch brands Exhibition       Description: Sands Expo & Convention Center City: Las Vegas, NV  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: 30.05 - 02.06 2009
 
USA PORTLAND GIFT & ACCESSORIES SHOW Description: Gift Shops,18 carat yellow gold, Furnishing Stores, Jewelry and Stationery Stores Show Venue:  Oregon Convention Center       City: Portland,cartier watch for women, OR  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: 30.05 - 02.06 2009
 
JUBINALE Description: Jewellery & Watches Trade Fair    Venue: Targi w Krakowie City: Kracow  ( Poland ) Month: 05.06 - 07.06 2009
 
T-GOLD Description: Jewelry & Gems Manufacturing Equipment International Exhibition City: Vicenza  ( Italy ) Venue: Fiera di Vicenza            Month: June
 
MODA SALONICA Fashion Fair for Clothing, Accessories and Bijoux         City: Thessaloniki  ( Greece ) Venue: Thessaloniki International Exhibition Centre        Month: June
 
USA INAST WEST - INTERNATIONAL NEW AGE SHOW Description: Event Designed Specifically to Meet the Needs of Retailers Featuring New Age and Related Products            Venue: Denver Merchandise Mart CityDenver: CO  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: June     
 
USA JA INTERNATIONAL JEWELRY SHOW Description: Finest Jewelry Designers and Manufacturers Show Venue: Jacob K. Javits Convention Center City: New York, NY  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: July
 
USA ORLANDO GIFT SHOW Description: Gift,Separation bicyclic ring, Jewelry & Accessories Exhibition       Venue: Orange County Convention Center        01.08 - 04.08 2009 City: Orlando, FL  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: August
 
ISTANBUL JEWELRY SHOW Description: International Jewelry,Leve Necklace White gold, Silver, Watch and Equipment Fair     Venue: CNR Expo Center        City: Istanbul  ( Turkey ) Month: August
 
USA SEATTLE GIFT SHOW Description: Gift Shops, Furnishing Stores, Jewelry and Stationery Stores Show Venue: Washington State Convention & Trade Center   City: Seattle, WA  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: August
 
BIJOUX Description: Exhibition of Costume Jewelry Venue: Milano Nuovo Polo       City: ( Italy ) Month:  September
 
ECLAT DE MODE - BIJORHCA Description: International Exhibition of Watch, Jewelry, Costume Jewelry, and Fashion Accessories       Venue: Paris Expo Porte de Versailles City: Paris  ( France ) Month: September
 
MACEF AUTUNNO / PRIMAVERA Description: International Home Show. Household and Gift Articles, Costume Jewelry, Perfumery and Fancy Items,nl cartier pen, Hardware, "Do It Yourself"                   Venue: Fiera Milano Nuovo City: Milan  ( Italy ) Month: September
 
MIDORA LEIPZIG Description: The Leipzig Clocks, Watches and Jewelry Trade Fair         Venue: Exhibition Centre Leipzig City: Leipzig  ( Germany ) Month: September
 
ORHOPA Description: Jewellery and Horology Business Event      once a year       Venue: Parc Floral de Paris City: Paris  ( France ) Month: September
 
INTERGIFT Description: International Gift Fair         Venue: Ifema - Parque Ferial Juan Carlos I       09.09 - 13.09 2009 City: Madrid  ( Spain ) Month: September
 
BISUTEX Description: Fashion Jewelry and Accessories Trade Fair          Venue: Ifema - Parque Ferial Juan Carlos I City: Madrid  ( Spain ) Month: September       
 
GIFTRENDS MADRID International Gift, Jewellery and Fashion            twice a year      Venue: Ifema - Parque Ferial Juan Carlos I City: Madrid  ( Spain ) Month: September IBERJOYA Description: International Jewelry, Silverware and Watch Exhibition       City: Madrid  ( Spain ) Venue: Ifema - Parque Ferial Juan Carlos I       Month: September
 
JEWELLER TECH Description: International specialized trade fair of goods and services for jeweler production and trade   Venue: Brothers Znamensky Olympic Center    City: Moscow  ( Russia ) September
 
JUNWEX MOSCOW Jewellery Wholesale Fair          once a year       Venue: Gostiny Dvor - Moscow           City: Moscow  ( Russia ) Month: September
 
CHOICE Description: International Exhibition of Gold, ewelry and Silverware       Venue: Fiera di Vicenza            City: Vicenza  ( Italy ) Month:  September
 
OROGEMMA International Show dedicated to Gold and Silverware, Jewellery and Gemology Venue:  Fiera di Vicenza           City:     Vicenza  ( Italy ) Month: September
 
JEWELLERY WORLD EXPO Description: The Leading Trade Show serving Canada’s Fine Jewelry Market Venue: Metro Toronto Convention Centre City: Toronto  ( Canada ) Month: September
 
PORTOJÓIA Description: International Jewelry, Gold and Watch Exhibition   Venue: Exponor            City: Porto  ( Portugal ) Month: September
 
WATCHES & JEWELLERY - HODINY A KLENOTY Description: Specialized Exhibition of Watches and Jewels combined with Exhibition of Exclusive Gifts   once a year            Venue: Prague Exhibition Grounds City: Prague  ( Czech Republic ) Month: September
 
BEAUTY WORLD Description: International Trade Fair for Cosmetics,mens cartier bracelets, Hairdressing,cartier antique jewelry, Style, Fashion, Lingerie and Bijouterie            Venue: Estonian Fairs Centre City: Tallinn  ( Estonia ) Month: October           
 
INTERGEM Description: International Trade Fair for Gems, Jewellery and Gemstone Objects Venue: Idar-Oberstein Fairgrounds City: Idar-Oberstein  ( Germany ) Month: October           
 
SALÓN DE BISUTERIA Description: Costume Jewellery, Gifts and Fashion Complements Show Venue: Bilbao Exhibition City: Bilbao  ( Spain ) Month: October,
 
USA PORTLAND CASH & CARRY SHOW Description: Gifts & Jewelry Show        Venue: Oregon Convention Center        City: Portland, OR  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: 09.10 - 11.10 2009
 
VEBO Description: Exhibition of Sweet-Boxes,cartier love bangle, Gifts, Silverware, Fittings         Venue: Mostra d'Oltremare       City: Napoli  ( Italy ) Month: October
 
FOIRE INTERNATIONALE DE MONACO Description: International Fair of de Monaco     Venue: Espace Fontvieille City: Monaco  ( Monaco ) Month: October
 
KOSMIMA International Exhibition for Jewellery - Clocks & Watches - Precious Stones - Machinery and Equipment          Venue: Thessaloniki International Exhibition Centre City: Thessaloniki  ( Greece ) Month: October           
 
MILLIONAIRE FAIR - MUNICH Description: International Luxury Goods Industry Fair    City: Munich  ( Germany ) Venue: New Munich Trade Fair Centre Month: October
 

 
MILLIONARE Description: Millionaire Exhibition - Gateway to the Luxury Lifestyle      City: Istanbul  ( Turkey ) Venue: CNR Expo Center        Month: October
 
MINERALIENTAGE MÜNCHEN Description: International Sales Exhibition (BÖRSE) and German Geological Trade Fair (GEOFA) for Minerals, Fossils,cartier watch bands, Crystals, Precious Stones         City: Munich  ( Germany ) Venue: New Munich Trade Fair Centre Month: 30.10 - 01.11 2009
 
MILLIONAIRE FAIR - MOSCOW Description: International Luxury Goods Industry Fair    Venue: Crocus-Expo IEC         City: Moscow  ( Russia ) Month: Nov
 
MILLIONAIRE FAIR - ISTANBUL Description: International Luxury Goods Industry Fair    City: Istanbul  ( Turkey ) Venue: CNR Expo Center Month: November
 
MILLIONAIRE UKRAINE Description: International specialized Exhibition of Elite Goods and Services, Luxury and High Lifestyle Products            Venue: Kiev International Exhibition Center       City: Kiev  ( Ukraine ) Month: November
 
MILLIONAIRE SHOW Description: International Luxury Fair    Venue: Exhibition Centre 'Acco International'    City: Kiev  ( Ukraine ) Month: November
 
WATCHES & JEWELS Description: International Trade Fair for Watches and Jewellery City: Bratislava  ( Slovakia ) Venue: Bratislava Exhibition Ground      Month: November
 
IFJA Description: International Fashion Jewellery & Accessories Fair and International Watch & Clock Fair  City: Casablanca  ( Morocco ) Venue: Casablanca       Month: November
 
GEM EXHIBITION Description: International Gem Exhibition           City: Tampere  ( Finland ) Venue: Tampereen Messu         Month: November
 
CHIBIMART - INVERNO Description: Cash & Carry Exhibition of Costume Jewelry in semiprecious stones,leve bracelet, precious stones, Silver Handicraft, Gift Items    City: Milan  ( Italy ) Venue: Fiera Milano City Month: November
 
JEWELLERY ARABIA Description: Middle East International Gold, Jewelry, Clock & Watch Exhibition City: Manama  ( Bahrain ) Venue: Bahrain International Exhibition & Convention Centre    Month: November
 
MINERALS BRNO Description: International Show for Minerals, Fossils, Precious Stones and Jewellery City: Brno  ( Czech Republic ) Venue: Brno Exhibition Centre  Month: November
 
LUXURY SHOW Description: International Exhibition for Goods and Services of Luxury Venue: Romexpo          City: Bucharest  ( Romania ) Month: December
 
MINERALIEN HAMBURG Description: International Show for Minerals, Fossils, Precious Stones and Jewellery City: Hamburg  ( Germany ) Venue: Hamburg Messe und Congress  Month: December
 
KARA - LES JOURNÉES DES JOAILLIERS CRÉATEURS Description: Creative Jewelry show       Venue: Carroussel du Louvre City: Paris  ( France ) Month: December
 
MILLIONAIRE FAIR - AMSTERDAM Description: International Luxury Goods Industry Fair    Venue: RAI International Exhibition and Congress Centre          City: Amsterdam  ( Netherlands ) Month: December
 
SALON INTERNATIONAL DE LA HAUTE HORLOGERIE International Exhibition of Luxury Watches        Venue: Palexpo            City: Geneve  ( Switzerland ) Month: Jan. 2010
 
USA INAST EAST - INTERNATIONAL NEW AGE SHOW Description: Event Designed Specifically to Meet the Needs of Retailers Featuring           New Age and Related Products           USA - Etats-Unis d'Amérique   City: USA - United States of America ) Month: Jan. 2010
 
USA MIAMI BEACH ANTIQUE JEWELRY & WATCH SHOW Description: Antique Jewelry & Watch Show    Venue: Miami Beach Convention Center City: Miami,Cartier La Dona Diamond 18kt Yellow Gold Large Ladies Watch, FL  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: 21.01 - 25.01 2010
 
PRINT'OR Description: International Meeting of Jewelry and Watch Trade Professionals     Venue: Eurexpo            City: Lyon  ( France ) Month: 31.01 - 02.02 2010
 

 
JUNWEX-PRO Description: International Jewellery Exhibition. Fine Jewellery. Precious Metals and Stones        Venue: Lenexpo Fairgrounds    City: St. Petersburg  ( Russia ) Month: Feb. 2010 (?)
 
PALM BEACH JEWELRY & ANTIQUE SHOW Description: Palm Beach Jewelry & Antique Show        Venue: Palm Beach County Convention Center City: Palm Beach,cartier gold rings, FL  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: Feb. 2010
 
JUNWEX-PRO ST.PETERSBURG Description: International Exhibition of Fine Jewellery & Precious Metals Expo Venue: Lenexpo Fairgrounds    City: St. Petersburg  ( Russia ) Month: Feb. 2010
 
ELITEXPO Description: International specialized Jewellery Fair-Exhibition. Jewellery. Jewels and semi-jewels. Technologies,cartier sweet 16 ring, Equipment and Instruments for Jewellery Production. Bank metals. Watches. Bijouterie and costly Accessories. Antiques. Author’s works of Art           Venue: Lviv Palace of Arts City: Lviv  ( Ukraine ) Month: Feb. 2010 (?)
 
JUNWEX-TECH Description: International Exhibition of Jewellery Technologies and EquipmentSt. Venue: Lenexpo Fairgrounds City: Petersburg  ( Russia ) Month: 03.02 - 07.02 2010
 
INHORGENTA EUROPE Description: International Trade Fair for Watches, Clocks, Jewelry, Precious Stones, Pearls, Silverware and their Manufacturing Equipment          Venue: New Munich Trade Fair Centre City: Munich  ( Germany ) Month: 19.02 - 22.02 2010
 
BEAUTY MOLDOVA Description: Decorative Cosmetics, Perfumery, Beauty Shop and Hairdresser's Equipment and Accessories,cartier love charity, Jewelry, Gems and Costume Jewelry    Venue: I.E.C. Moldexpo           City: Chisinau  ( Moldova ) Month: 25.02 - 28.02 2010
 
MADE IN FRANCE Description: 'Haute-Façon’ Fair. Clothing (Ready-to-Wear, Women, Men, Children). Leather goods,cartier must gold watch, Home linen, Jewellery, Fashion accessories, Lingerie            once a year Venue: Carroussel du Louvre    City:     Paris  ( France ) Month: March 2010 (?)
 

 
USA MJSA EXPO NEW YORK Description: Exhibition for Major Manufacturers, Bench Jewelers,cartier ballerine leather straps watches, Retail Buyers and Designers  Venue: Jacob K. Javits Convention Center City: New York, NY  ( USA - United States of America ) Month: March 2010
 
USA BOSTON GIFT SHOW Description: Wholesalers & Manufacturers International Gift Show        City: Boston, MA  ( USA - United States of America ) Venue: Boston Convention & Exhibition Center Month: March 2010
 
SIBJEWELRY Description: International Exhibition of Jewelry,cartier deployment watchband, Precious Stones, Equipment for Treatment and Manufacturing, Clock and Watch Trade           Venue: World Trade Center - Novosibirsk        City: Novosibirsk  ( Russia ) Month: 03.03 - 06.03 2010
 

 

 

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(a) the growth of fable: the growth of apple trees will never do a

an apple tree, and finally the result.
the first year, which end up with 10 apples, 9 were taken away, they receive one. In response, angry apple trees, then cutting off, in turn, refused to grow. The next year, it bears a five apples, four were taken away, they receive one. \
However, it can do: continue to grow. For example,belstaff leather, the second year, it bears the 100 fruit, 90 were taken away, they receive 10.
is possible, it is taken away 99, they receive one. But no matter, it can continue to grow fruit the third year-end 1000 ... ...
fact, how much fruit is not the most important. The most important thing is the tree to grow! Such as apple trees grow into towering trees, those who have hindered its growth will be weak to negligible power. Really, do not worry so much about the fruit, the growth is the most important. Psychological Review】 【

you are not a meridian of the work has since broken family?
started work, you talented, high-spirited, I believe that \But the reality soon hit a few of your Sap, perhaps, you made a great contribution for the unit that no one seriously; perhaps, but not only by verbal emphasis on affordable; maybe ... ... In short, you feel like the apple tree , bear the fruit of their own to enjoy only a small part, and falls far short of your expectations.
So, you are angry, upset you, do you grumble ... ... In the end, you decide not to work so hard, to do to match their own income. After the past few years, as you reflect on that now you have not just the work of passion and talent of the time.
\But the essence is that you have stopped growing.
such stories abound around us.
why make such mistakes, because we forget that life is a journey, a whole, we think we have grown over, now is the time of the fruit. We too care about temporary gains and losses, and forget the growth is the most important.
Fortunately, this is not a Jin Yong novel of self-off passages. We stand ready to give up doing so, continue to move toward growth path.
Remember: If you are a working group, met do not understand management, management or error management brutal boss or corporate culture, then, to remind ourselves about, do not disgruntled because of the anger and the self-off passages. No matter what, have to do an apple tree will never grow because you always grow important than how much money each month.

(b) the motivation of the parable: the child in whom a group of children playing

frolic in front of an elderly, sounds a great deal. Over the past few days, the elderly unbearable.
So he came out to 25 cents for each child, said to them: \happy, the next day is still coming, as always, playfulness. Come out to the elderly and gave each child 15 cents. He explained that he had no income, only a small to some. It also can be 15 cents, children are still happily away.
the third day, the old man gave only 5 cents for each child.
children with rage,belstaff jackets outlet, \Psychological Review】 【

whom you \. \
two types of human motivation: internal motivation and external motivation. If the internal motivation to act in accordance with, we are masters of their own. If we are driven by external motivation, we will be swayed by external factors to become enslaved by it.
In this fable, the calculation is simple for the elderly, who will the children's internal motivation \factors, so it manipulated the children's behavior. Fables of the elderly, a lot like your boss, boss? And cents, like not like your wages, bonuses and other kinds of external rewards?
such as the external evaluation as a reference coordinate, our emotions can easily fluctuate. Because we can not control external factors, it is easy to deviate from our internal expectations, let us dissatisfied, let us grumble. Gripe and let negative emotions such as pain, in order to reduce the pain, we had to reduce the internal expectations, the most common method is to reduce the work effort.
A person can form an external evaluation system, the most important reason is that parents like to control him. Parents too prefer to use verbal rewards and punishments, material incentives and other control children, not to ignore the child's own motivation. Over time, the children have forgotten their original motives, what are the external evaluation of care. School, he has forgotten the original motivation to learn the joy of curiosity and learning; work, he forgot the original motivation for the work of the joy of growth, the evaluation of superiors and income fluctuations into his work the largest source of pleasure and pain.
remember: external evaluation of the system often is a hereditary, but you can break it, from now on cultivating their own internal evaluation system, to study and work into a \

(c) Planning fable: a piece of paper folded 51 times

Imagine your hands are a big enough white. Now, your task is to fold it 51 times. So, How high?
a refrigerator? Floor? Or a skyscraper so high? No, a big change, the thickness more than the distance between Earth and the Sun. Psychological Review】 【


to now, I get asked a dozen people in this fable, only two people said that this may be an unimaginable height, while others think of the height of the highest That is a tall skyscraper.
folded height of 51 such terror, but if only the 51 white paper stacked together?
This contrast made many people feel shocked. Because there is no direction, lack of planning in life, like the 51 White simple stacked. Doing this today, tomorrow little bit of that, every time there is no link between efforts. In this way, even if each work is done very well, they have your whole life is nothing but a simple superposition.
, of course, life is more complicated than this fable. Some people, life finds a simple direction and firmly to do so, they reached the other end of life unattainable height. For example, I have a friend for your life is English, he spent more than a decade efforts, only the memory of the word reached the amount of ten million and more, at this point to reach the average person can not match the height.
some people, and their direction in life is also very clear, for example, to start a company boss, so they need a lot of skills to professional skills, management skills, communication skills, decision-making skills and so on. They may try doing this in the beginning, and try doing that, none is particularly proficient, but in the end, open the company boss in the direction of these seemingly scattered the previous integration efforts together, which is a kinds of complex folding in life, rather than simply additive.
Remember: the power of sight more useful than the invisible forces.
Now, the popular place to find the answer from the unseen, such as the potential development, such as Success, that we rely on some miracle of life can be saved. However, in my opinion, Counseling Center, Dongguan Heng Yuan consultant Mao Zhengjiang more correctly,belstaff outlet, \avoid the fables: cat escape the shadow of the tricks

\, Tom and Toby found, as long as the sun appeared, they will see that they are crazy for their own shadow.
However, Tom and Toby finally have found their own solutions. Tom is always close their eyes. Approach is to Toby, always stay in the shadows of other things.

【Comments】
mental note of this fable, a little mental problem is how to become more psychological problems.
can say that all psychological problems are derived from the distortion of the facts. What facts? We mainly those suffering negative events.
because of the pain experience, we do not want to face the negative events. However, once occurred, negative events that is destined to be with us for life, we can do them up but is repressed into the subconscious to go, this is the so-called forgotten.
However, their subconscious will still continue to play a role. And,belstaff online, even if we have forgotten the fact that powerful again, the pain associated with these facts would still attack us, let us somehow sad, and can not be suppressed. This pain Let us further effort to escape.
development to the end, the usual solution is to these two: either, as we like the cat Tom and completely distorting their experience of life in all the important facts are ignored negative; or, we, like cat care than as, simply join their suffering, his own everything were very bad, since everything is so bad, that make their most sad event is not so original pain.
clouds mental hospital consultant, said Li Ling, 99% of drug users had a painful experience. The reason they did drugs to make themselves to escape the pain. It's like hide in the shadows, painful truth is a devil, the devil in order to avoid this, simply to sell itself to a greater devil. There are many alcoholism
adults, they have had an alcoholic and abusive father, father survive a lot of torture. To forget the pain, they learn the same way. In addition to these visible
wrong way, we humans have invented a myriad of all kinds of ways to escape suffering, Freud referred to these methods of psychological defense mechanisms. Too painful, these defense mechanisms is necessary, but worse, if the distortion of the facts of psychological defense mechanism is so intense, it will take a more psychological problems, such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, social anxiety disorder, multiple personality, or even schizophrenia.
really only one way to reach the health of your grief. Facing the pain would get a lot from the pain of unexpected gains, they will eventually become the life of the party of wealth.
Remember: shadow and light, as are the wealth of life.
one of the most important psychological law is, no matter how painful, you are no escape. You can only go brave face it and resolve it, beyond it, and it finally reached a settlement. If you own a temporary shortage of power, you can find help, find friends and relatives for help, or seek professional help, accompany you trust with you to face the pain.
Rogers, American psychologist, was the most lonely person, but when he resolved to face this fact and after he became a true master of interpersonal relationships; American psychologist Frank has a brutal and alcoholic stepfather and a bad mother, but when he challenges the fact and, ultimately, from the heart to forgive his parents, he became an expert in this area treatment; Japanese psychologist Morita horse was being serious neurological disorder, but he challenges the fact and through Morita therapy eventually invented the ... ... their most painful fact of life eventually became their most important asset. You can do the same.

(e) action fable crabs, owls and bats

crabs, owls and bats to cram on the habit. Few years later, they graduate and obtain a doctorate. However, the crab is still rampant, owls sleep during the day and evening activities are still the bat still hung upside down. Psychological Review】 【


This is even famous master of a fable, and its meaning is simple: action more important than knowledge.
used in mental health, this fable is also thought-provoking.
called profound knowledge of psychology. However, the more even the best knowledge of psychology help a person does not automatically become more healthy. In fact, I know some people who had studied psychology for many years, they learn one of the purposes of psychology is to rule themselves, but after so many years of school,belstaff sale, their problems remain.
reason why this happens, a very important reason is, they do not personally, just far away as the knowledge of knowledge, knowledge,belstaff coat, and not into their own life experience.
one of my friends like psychology, has been considered less sensitive than those of psychology, not suitable for Psychology. But the fact is that speculation is not correct. He is not sensitive enough, but he has a very big advantage: to know a good knowledge immediately in their own lives to do it. As a result, the knowledge that becomes a distant real life experience, he does not \
If we say that the quality of high sensitivity is a genius, then the power is more important Gao genius quality.
this fable can come out of another meaning: Do not expect too much the magic of the mysterious psychological treatment. Always the most important force in your own body, the mysteries of knowledge, the potential development of mysterious, dazzling success and so forth, are far inferior to the power of your own body has been important. We used to go outside to find the answer to someone else looking for strength, the results have forgotten the power in themselves.
Remember: other people's knowledge can not automatically save you.
punch if some renju touched you, if some text or a new creed inspired you. So, these other people's words and experience are just a start, more importantly, a good knowledge you think you really use in your own life to go.
Jewish philosopher Martin? Buber's words, I have always considered the most important:
you have to start their own. If you do not love to go deep in a positive life, if you do not own way to reveal the meaning of life for themselves, then for you, life will remain meaningless.

(VI) to give the Fables:

bees and flowers withered roses, the bees are still hard suck, because it takes before sucking off from this little sweet. But now in this little to spend, the bees suck the venom.
bees know this, because the venom bitter taste is the big difference with the previous. Thus, bees anger, however, breathe on it the whole world looked up to complain about, why the taste changed? !
Finally one day, do not know why, bee vibrating wings, flying a bit high. At this time, it found, withered roses around the flowers everywhere. Psychological Review】 【


This is the fable about love, is a young language teacher of the true sentiment.
some time, she was falling out of love, painful, and always wanted to talk about me, I hope I can give her some knowledge of psychology help. We have some time, but almost two months later, the total time they can not happen to get together.
the last time about her, she said: \The pain of lost love is still plagued her, let her trance, unable to enjoy the beauty of Jiuzhaigou. Inadvertently, she noticed a little on the honey bee is a flower. That moment, her mind like thunder and lightning appeared in one sentence: \was such a silly, she's the bees in this sentence refers to her own course. That moment, she had to give up the truth out of insight. Previously, she wanted me to help her out, but in fact, the long wings in her own body, she can fly to fly.
give up is not easy to give up love, especially painful. Because, love is when our young copy of parent-child relationship. Small children, no matter from which side, parents can not do without. If a complete denial of his father and mother, and that means death for him, this is the ultimate harm and fear. We have experienced more or less been denied parents the pain and fear, so when love is a copy of the parent-child relationship once again we experience the pain and fear, our emotions can easily become very bad.
However, compared to love and parent-child relationship, there is a huge difference: a child, nothing we can do, all parents have the final say; But now we grow up, we have the power to choose their own destiny. It can be said, a child, we do not have wings bee, but now we have a pair of powerful wings.
However, when deeply in love, we will return to childhood, we forget that they have a pair of wings to fly. When we realize that, after their love is no longer automatically copy parent-child relationship, our love was free, there is a give up power.
Remember: Love is two things, two completely equal, independent and human dignity thing. You can work, but not that hard for you there will be results, because another person, you can not determine.
So, no matter how much you care about the time love, if another person determined to leave you, please respect his choice.
And also remember, you are no longer a child, are left with the pain of torture. You have grown up, you have a pair of powerful wings, you can fly out of a relationship has become poison.

(g) close to the fable: the unique Rose

Little Prince has a small planet, the planet suddenly blooming flower blooming roses. Previously, only some unknown on this planet the flowers, the little prince had never seen such beautiful flowers, he fell in love with this rose, carefully nurtured her.
those days, he thought, this is a unique flower on earth, only his only planet, other places do not exist.
, however, so he came to Earth and found that there is a garden just the same as 5000 of this flower. At this time, he knows that he only have an ordinary flower.
the beginning, this discovery, let the little prince was very sad. But in the end, the little prince to understand, although there are many roses in the world, but his planet tis is still unique because that rose, he had water, cover flowers to cover her with a screen protection over , in addition to her body caterpillars, but also to listen to her grumbled, or boasted, listening to silence her ... ... a word, and he tamed her, and she tamed him, she is his unique roses.
\Psychological Review】 【


This is a French classic \
face of 5000 roses, the little prince said: \But now we empty the increasingly popular \We are anxious to have
. Seems that each has had a rose, the value of their own lives to Duoliaoyifen. Internet age, with several ten lover, is no longer a rare thing too. But I know who these promiscuous, no one is empty. They do not enjoy the relationship, they just enjoy the conquest.
\But once owned, they will quickly lose interest in this intimate relationship. the stronger the desire to conquer, the faster the rate of loss. \attractive.
However, the relationship between the United States, almost two inputs is the extent and degree to be tamed. When two people are naturally going into, naturally, be tamed, the relationship will become a life nourishment, so that a person's life becomes more filling and more beautiful.
However, no matter how close. The Little Prince is still Prince, Rose is still a rose, they are still two individuals. Rose not to travel if the little prince, little prince or non-travel the roses with me, they have to stick together, the relationship is no longer enjoy, but will become a burden.
Remember: both a close and mutually independent relationship, the relationship is better than a thousand general. This relationship will bring us the sense of loneliness from the hopeless rescue, the most important in our lives as a salvation.
If you have not experienced, you can not know the beauty of this relationship.
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